I constantly trawl the net so I can learn from personal stories.
Here is a collection of great posts about real life experiences and challenges around relationships with birth families with adoptee children. I hope they hold some answers for whatever questions you may have around this aspect of living within a life touched by adoption in some way.
I hope these are of help to anyone out there with any questions, doubts or dilemmas. If you wish to contribute to this list, then please let me know and i’ll add your link.
From Jazz Boorman at “All aboard the trauma train” an adoptee’s description of the first time she met her Mum at the age of eight: My Name is Jazz
From Amanda Boorman at “All aboard the trauma train” an adopter’s proactive story of seeking out her daughter’s Mother: Mind The Gap
From New Pyjama Mummy at ‘New Pyjamas’ adoptee/adopter honest and thoughtful preparation for her first visit with her daughter’s siblings: Making Contact